Don’t you wish that sometimes you could read your date’s mind? The good news is, while becoming a mind reader isn’t an option, becoming just a little more observant of nonverbal cues may give you some of the answers you’ve been looking for.An amazing 55 percent of all communication is nonverbal, according to the famous research conducted by Albert Mehrabian.Plenty of research shows that hand gestures, posture and facial expression and other visual communication cues (even how close a person stands near others) are ripe for interpretation.Often-cited (and debated) research from psychologist Albert Mehrabian suggests that 55 percent of human communication is through body language, 38 percent is the tone of voice, and only 7 percent of the message understood is the result of what the person says.
Your body can also express emotions, feelings and attitudes. What is important about posture in an attraction scenario is this: is your love interest leaning into you? We can exude confidence by our posture and can attract attention and love interests by this one simple thing. Here are some of the subtle cues of attraction: Dilated pupils Men’s nostrils flare ever so slightly Women tend to touch their face or their hair Men tend to touch their chin or their lips And then the subtle cues of just the opposite: Women will hold their purse in front of them Men will stand away Women tend to fidget or be distracted Men will close their arms around themselves Yes, learning subtle cues is a game changer. The best way to practice is to get in the habit of being an observer.Body language is described as non-verbal communication.This can include facial expressions and eye behavior. Posture is even important for your online dating profile photos!His body language demonstrates the power of nonverbal forms of communication.Experts have long known that humans communicate with much more than just words.